Imagine having a conversation with your future self, getting insights on avoiding pitfalls on your life’s journey. Philosophers have known for thousands of years why we need to live life forward yet with a strong need to understand our past. The new book, Your Future Self, by UCLA Professor Hal Hershfield, has had a profound effect on not only why my future self-thinking is important, but how I can benefit. I think it can also help you with your life and your career.
I’ve always been taken by Danish philosopher Soren Kierkegaard who wrote, “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” Being future-thinking, however, doesn’t come naturally to everyone. Some are ready to plan for their 401(k) right after they finish their bachelor’s degree ahead of schedule. Others eat the marshmallow, instead of waiting for a second.
Those who truly want to become the best version of themselves can do so only after they have taken a historical perspective of their life. Based on over a decade of cognitive research, author Hal Hershfield explains that in our minds, our future selves often look like strangers. Many of us view the future as incredibly distant, making us more likely to opt for immediate gratification that disregards our health and well-being in the years to come. People who are able to connect with their future selves, however, are better able to balance living for today and planning for tomorrow.
How can you prepare for your future self with your career?
- Take a long perspective. Create a vision statement by writing down who you want to be
- Honestly assess your personal and professional gaps
- Work with a coach, mentor, or manager to chart your course
- Commit to growth by creating a cadence of accountability
- Stay true to your vision and values
Plan ahead to determine what your future self will look like as you walk the path along your journey.
